Tosin Fajana has launched a charity focused on the welfare of the Yoruba elderly, known in the community as the Arugbos, who are often overlooked and forgotten.
Epe Insights reports Fajana draws inspiration from both of her fathers—her uncle and real father, Kolade Fajano, who taught him the virtues of compassion, generosity, and love for others. From an early age, Fajana saw and appreciated his father’s ability to make every guest leave his house smiling. She also related touching tales about his uncle, emphasising the happiness she offered to everybody, especially those who lived far away. Fajana’s dedication to taking care of the elderly and making sure they feel appreciated and remembered was influenced by these experiences.
At a recent event, Fajana shared his motivation for the initiative, explaining that the elderly hold a special place in her heart and deserve care, love, and attention. She emphasised that while society often dismisses the elderly as having “lived their lives,” her program seeks to honour them and improve their well-being.
Activities include medical outreach for blood pressure and blood sugar checks, educational talks on healthy ageing, quizzes, and experience-sharing sessions where elders discuss how they are managing their old age. The event also included jokes and gift items to bring joy and engagement to the participants. Fajana explained that he aims to reduce loneliness among the elderly, a challenge he observed in his own family and community, and to create spaces where they can experience happiness and companionship.
Speaking at the event, Mr Tunde Bejide, FCIB, from Tomefadisha School, expressed his full support for Fajana’s initiative. He noted that while society often prioritises widows or children in need, caring for the elderly is equally important, as it brings great reward and joy. Mr Bejide praised Fajana’s outreach across multiple states, including Epele, Ondo, Oshun, and Ogun, and expressed optimism that the program would continue to expand to more communities, including Ketu, in the coming year. He emphasised that old age is not a sickness but a stage in life that deserves encouragement and attention.
Fajana concluded the event by reaffirming her dedication to Yoruba elders, promising to continue spreading love and support to as many as possible. The initiative, grounded in personal experience and cultural values, highlights the importance of honouring elders and ensuring their happiness and well-being in society.
